Why are smart people often difficult to love?

The problem of the heart is always difficult to understand. Scientists mention a rather interesting issue that can look at familiar things in a different way and explain why smart people often find it difficult to find a mate?

1. They always analyze their feelings and others

Smart people know how to gather information and make conclusions. And this ability causes a bad joke: they always tend to "run away" from relationships as soon as there are first signs of problems than others. Misunderstanding, arguing? That means we don't get along, break up!

Smart people are often cold and isolated, although they are not.(Illustration).

2. They need a lot of time to be open to others

The brain is constantly working, outlining all kinds of details and the reason why it can happen. As a result, smart people are difficult to open to others: they know and understand that any relationship is risky. Therefore, they are often cold and isolated, although they are not.

3. They believe in experiences from the past

Smart people often fall into a trap. People who have ruined their relationship with the past do not mean that they will do so with their current relationship, but smart people often find it hard to recognize this. They remember very well the past trauma and impose experience from the past for those who are close in the present.

4. Loneliness - conscious choice

Exactly. Smart people realize that being alone is better and more comfortable with others. It is a conscious decision. In most cases, these people are alone because of the circumstances, but because they want it and feel great when they are alone.