36 questions will make you love anyone when you first meet

Twenty years ago, a psychologist named Arthur Aron compiled 36 questions he intended to use to make two strangers fall in love. In an experimental room; It is not the most romantic place.

And he succeeded. He met two other sexes to meet each other, sitting opposite while answering 36 questions that individuality was increasing in each sentence, divided into 3 parts. Their challenge is to answer these questions openly and honestly, and then look at each other in silence for 4 minutes.

The couple married after 6 months.

Curious, author and college professor Mand Cat Len Catron decided to try it again on his own, and then told the Modern Love section of the New York Times.

What a joy! - DISADVANTAGES - it worked for you. She and an early friend from college followed exactly this process (outside the lab, they went to the bar together) and fell in love. So what's the secret here, we hear you cry? Both are more than just coincidence.

Here are those 36 questions, with 4 minutes of looking straight into each other's eyes in silence, to make everything clearer:

Part 1:

1. To choose anyone in the world, who do you want to be the guest for dinner?

2. Do you want to be famous? In what way?

3. Before you call someone, do you often rehash what you're going to say? Why?

4. What makes a 'perfect' day for you?

5. When was the last time you sang yourself? Let others listen?

6. If you can live to be 90 years old and keep or mentally or physically at age 30 for the last 60 years of your life, which one will you choose?

7. Do you have any secret premonitions about how you will die?

8. Point out 3 things that are common to you and your friend.

9. What makes you feel grateful in your life?

10. If it could change something in the way you grow up, what would it be?

11. Set aside 4 minutes to tell your friend about a story in your life, as detailed as possible.

12. If you wake up in the morning and can have a level / knowledge or any ability, what will it be?

Part 2:

13. If a glass ball can tell the truth about yourself, your life and the future or anything else, what would you want to know?

14. Is there anything you've dreamed of doing long ago? Why you still haven't finished it?

15. What is your best achievement?

16. What do you value most in friendship?

17. What is your most precious memory?

18. What is your worst memory?

19. If you know that in a year, you will suddenly die, what will you change in your lifestyle now? Why?

20. What does friendship mean to you?

21. What role does love and emotion play in your life?

22. One by one you share a good character of your friend. A total of 5 things.

23. How close and cozy is your family? Do you find your childhood happier than others?

24. How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?

Part 3:

25. Complete 3 sentences 'We .' honestly. For example: 'We are all in this room, feeling .'.

26. Complete the following sentence: 'I wish I had someone to share .'.

27. If you're going to be close friends with your friend, please share what's important for her / he knows.

28. Tell your friend what you like about them; Please be sincere at the moment, say things you have not necessarily told the person you just met.

29. Share with your friend about a shameful moment in your life.

30. When was the last time you cried in front of others? When did you cry yourself?

31. Tell your friends about what you like about them.

32. What, if any, is too important to be taken as a joke?

33. If you had to die tonight without a chance to talk to anyone, what could you say that made you regret the most? Why haven't you said that?

34. Your home, contains all your burnt things. After saving all the people you love, you have enough time to safely bring out something. What would that be? Why?

35. Out of all your family members, who is the departure of you most bothering? Why?

36. Share a personal issue and ask for advice from your friend about how he / she will handle it. And also ask your friend how you feel about the problem you have chosen.