Put me in the fridge because ... talk

Once, Ha asked her husband to hold her baby in a crib for her baby to sleep, when she said: 'Brother, put me in the refrigerator for him to sleep to help me with' making my husband Ha's eyes A, mouth O because I don't understand my wife. what.

Bi comedy sister said after birth

After giving birth, many women, though they spoke very fluently before, were suddenly stung. Many times when it comes to expressing one side, the mouth speaks another.

Enough type .

After giving birth to their first child, after four months of maternity leave, Ha (Thanh Tri, Hanoi) returned to work as a customer care worker of a mobile phone network. Ha's job is to regularly contact and answer all customers' questions so they have to talk continuously. Previously, this was nothing difficult for Ha because she was a rather ' linguist' who spoke fluently. But after a week of work, Ha made many customers gasp because of his 'no one can understand' statement. Ha used to use the word ' refrigerator' in a sentence that was sometimes unrelated. Once the customer came to ask about the promotion, Ha should have told them to go to the table next to the staff in charge of that, she would instruct the guests ' to the refrigerator next door' to make the guest stand I don't know where to go.

Women are often stressed during the period of raising babies.(Illustration)

During her maternity leave at home, Ha found herself occasionally bitten but she didn't pay much attention. As once, Ha asked her husband to hold her baby in a crib for her baby to sleep, when she said, 'Brother, put me in the fridge for me to sleep with you.' Ha's husband had to ask him a few times before Ha realized that he was talking. After learning, then when Ha noticed, speaking slowly , he could help 'stamen' but say quickly that he will come out . the refrigerator!

This biting phenomenon also has many types. Someone like Ha, often use a word to say in any situation that makes the listener understand nothing. Someone called the object mistook the other thing for the other thing, calling the name of a person must call all the people present and then call the right person. Some people say the opposite of proclaiming ' mother' to call their mother-in-law as 'child' as Ms Thuy is 30 years old (Gia Lam, Hanoi). After giving birth, Thuy often " ordained" herself to be "mother " and "to beat" her mother down to "child" . Whenever talking to her mother-in-law, Thuy Toan called her with a baby and she confessed to being a mother. On the contrary, when speaking to children, Thuy called her 'mother ' and I called her 'child '. ' Sometimes, it is good to say such a good thing without knowing that I said it wrongly, until people discovered and reminded me to be a fool,' Thuy said.

The older women, the older ones, said that it was because the time when the child was born, he did not abstain from abstinence , sat in the curtain and said to go out or say too much, said loudly , then he would be told. Mrs. Phi, who lives in Truc Ninh, Nam Dinh, said that her mother-in-law also said that she had been blurted out after giving birth, but she said all the words . very often, making not only the shy speaker but also the listeners. face.

About this 'bumbling' , there are still 'unfortunate' people today, not just old people. As confided by a young mother on a networking forum. She told me that once my husband sat pomelos, peeled off and asked me to invite my mother in the inner room to eat. So she immediately called out loudly into the room: ' Grandma, do you eat b .? Delicious! ' . Then suddenly she saw her husband lying down and hugging his stomach and laughing and shaking for nearly 10 minutes, the tears in his nose were flowing. She was still bewildered not understanding what. Later, her husband pulled his wife out in front of the mirror only: 'Look at this wife's face so kindly that she would invite adults to eat .! Take your wife too. ' At that time, she just fell back and carried the trough to recall, it seems like I just said something that was not ' good' . She said: ' Luckily, that day was inviting my grandmother, but if it was my mother-in-law, she might be told that my daughter-in-law deliberately played! .

Not because of no abstinence

According to Dr. Le Minh Cong, deputy head of the Department of Clinical Psychology, Central Psychiatric Hospital 2, a consultant of the Hoang Nhan Psychological Counseling Center (Hanoi), the phenomenon of women has the expression Being so forgetful or stubborn can be a sign of depression. According to research data provided by Dr. Cong, in HCMC today, the proportion of women with postpartum depression accounts for about 5-8%. With many different forms of expression such as anxiety, stress, even mental disorders .

It is not about not abstaining, talking, speaking aloud in a period like a number of people. still talking that can be a postpartum stress condition.

In fact, this stubbornness does not directly affect health so people do not have the need to go to the doctor for help. Dr. Cong said, he himself has not met any patients who come to see him with such a manifestation and therefore it is difficult to make accurate diagnosis."This is just a symptom that to determine whether it is a disease and how much it needs to be considered more carefully in combination with many other factors," Dr. Cong said.

The first step may be that these expressions are caused by psychological factors . Women after childbirth often experience certain mental changes, especially for women who give birth for the first time. At this time, the body has other changes, disturbance of activities such as insomnia, worries about the baby, financial worries, distress about appearance, insecurity, and later sexual intercourse. Many cases of birth are not as good as before . those factors are easy to cause women to be under stress.

Stouting is a manifestation of linguistic behavioral disorder, due to neurasthenia, the loss of control or inappropriate control of speech even though the consciousness is normal. Similarly, women's postnatal amnesia is also a sign of stress, many mothers suddenly become distracted, distracted and often make mistakes such as forgetting to lock their doors when going out, forgetting their phones, forget your wallet when going to the market, forget to button the shirt, pull the pants .

However, such initial manifestations cannot be confirmed as pathological. If it is inconvenient and negatively affects daily life, mothers should go to the psychological counseling agencies for advice and screening, if they really have the disease, they will be appointed by the specialists. treatments.

Postpartum disorders of this type, according to doctors, recommend precautions . Mothers should not be too worried, think too much, arrange their work and reasonable rest time to ensure the best physical and mental health. If there is this situation, it is not only the woman who needs to try to overcome but needs the support and assistance of family members, especially the husband, so he cares and takes care of the work. With the wife, giving them certain psychological comfort will limit the situation.