Signs of someone who has a disease

People with DTP symptoms are expressed in three symptoms: Cystic, cunning, and multi-personality disorders. These characteristics are reflected in people as an expression of excessive self-love and lack of empathy.

It is unclear how many people in this population have this symptom, but studies have shown that this number is between 1 and 10%.

People with DTP are often said to have an obsession with themselves, and they try to see other people's emotional points. For this reason, their relationships often fall into abuse and control.

DTP lovers are always manipulated, exploited and after their value is over, they are removed.

A common question is: Will the children of a DTP be treated differently from their spouse?

Love lovers never really love anyone

According to Perpetua Neo, a psychologist and therapist who specializes in DTPs, the answer is no . She said: " People with affection, multi-personality disorders, and people with antisocial personality disorder do not have empathy. They do not and will not develop empathy, because so they never really love anyone ".

This does not change when they have children. DTP people do not have natural instincts to protect and encourage their children, because they are not considered a separate entity. They are just a tool.

"DTPs often treat children as their own extensions and their properties. So instead of saying: 'Parents will raise children so that they can grow up and become the best people.' They say that I have to grow up and do this so I can give the title to my parents' , Neo said.

This is very different from the environment of a healthy family that a child will grow up. Instead of nurturing and teaching children in the usual way, children who are DTP's children grew up unaware of themselves.

"You can check your phone, you can do anything you want, you can go to your room," Neo says, these are things that DTP people trust.

"There are no emotional boundaries, so children grow up not really sure about the limitations of something."

The child is expected to fill all the things they don't have. For example, affectionate people are often unhappy people, they have low self-esteem, so they put a lot of negative emotions into their children.

DTP people do not love their own children.(Photo: Joshua Clay).

They are used as a garbage bag containing parents' problems, and a place that provides comfort. This continued for many years, and Neo said some of her clients had said that their parents had said: "The only reason parents are born is that they can take care of their father / I am not allowed to have children, I am not allowed to marry. '

The child is 'garbage bag'

Throughout their lives, the child is considered a 'garbage bag' both physically and mentally for a parent with DTP. This becomes more difficult when the child grows up, because they become stronger and more conscious, so DTP parents will resist this by robbing them of their confidence.

Neo said: "When parents grow old and their health begins to decline, they will be less confident. The child grows up, becomes strong, and has a lot of self-awareness, and this is very "It is difficult for these parents to control them. So this becomes an unhealthy competition. They frustrate the child, telling them that they are frivolous, useless and ugly."

At the same time, whenever the child accomplishes something, they always steal it. For example, if the child is a really good trumpet player, the only reason they give is because they have been teaching them for years, even if this may not be true.

"Every single thing was robbed. So the child grew up with bad thoughts about his own body ," Neo said.

These may vary depending on the number of children DTP has. Sometimes, the DTP will have more than one child. In most cases, a child will become a golden child and never do anything wrong.

Neo said: "Children can live in fear, because all they want to do is to please their parents so they don't have any trouble. So they will be loved."

And the second child is used as a scapegoat, one goes away and is blamed for everything. Many DTPs are interested in seeing children oppose each other and create unnecessary competition.