The eternal tragedy of men

The world has about 150 million helpless men and this army will become more and more crowded. Being "fattened" with sex specialties, the global entertainment industry grew bigger and bigger, the more men thought about "sex", the more it became. For one thing, this number runs out of desire, others suffer because of the pressure of women .

Jochen M. remembers that night, when he was expelled from the pack. It was a few hours, when the attractive woman suddenly became a threat, instead of a promise. Guy Jochen M. at that time still a young man, 30 years old, once cherished the hope of playing the role of "the lord of the forest" of that afternoon, when he happened to meet on his girlfriend's road.

They strolled together at the park, then drank some wine, both filled with feelings of happiness. Night falls, Jochen does not remember, who opens the way to "interesting entertainment". I just remember what happened afterwards in bed. Because of the desire to rise to the neck, something, Jochen could do nothing. His man tool was "noodle".

The two still hugged a little. The girlfriend comforted her, such a risky thing usually happens to two people who haven't met for a long time. "Besides, there must be something first between us," the girl added. And he stammered: "That's right, that's right", but in his mind he was still heavy with questions with the weight of dumbbell rolling in the opposite direction. Simple question with content: Why does "it" not stand up?

Such an embarrassing event has never happened to Jochen. "In the past, it was completely normal for me," he asserted. Jochen guessed that the culprit could be stress. Every morning he had to show up at the office eight hours before and returned home about 20 o'clock. "I read somewhere that the article said that stress is toxic to men," he said.

About this "problem", as Jochen calls pain with his man tool, he doesn't tell anyone. In fact, he still hasn't figured out the exact concept of that problem.

"If unfortunately you have that problem, it can't be said to be a disease," the bad man explained. He only revealed it to a male doctor, but after a long time.

With that friend, Jochen didn't have the courage to talk about his problem. Then, after the second failure. Because they met again after a few days. The two were in "costume" Eva and Adam. But all remained silent like sheets. Jochen's man tool again "noodle".

Such stories, Dr. Axel-Jurg Potempa, urologist and sexologist in Munchen (Germany), hear daily. He treated about 3,000-5,000 patients who thought that they were helpless or the truth they used to be.

The cause may be different: alcoholism, due to side effects of drugs, diabetes, prostate cancer, consequences of venereal disease or consequences of internal stress, which insiders themselves cannot determine means.

Among his patients there are quite a number of media figures. In their work they often face perfect sex ideal, and they themselves universalize that ideal.

At the same time, Germany alone had more than 10 million men at least once failed in bed. From five to eight million are often the victims of the situation "on the security, not listening". Pride, shame and fear quickly mixed together. And the barrier formed like that.

Later that night, when Jochen M. was once again disappointed, he fell into real panic. At first he was brave to get to know his new girlfriend. Jochen still remembered the three faces and still had a terrible feeling, when he lay next to them: he looked at their wonderful back and calculated each rib and hour by hour to dawn.

None of the girls maintained their relationship with Jochen. Jochen understands why he even praised them, behaved politely. "Of course I was worried that, some of them would laugh at my nose. But they all tried to comfort me, no one disregarded me as a 'junkie' or showed hatred. Simple, someday, they get up and go out of my house and never come back ".

In fact, outside of work, Jochen doesn't walk out of the house. He was afraid of inviting his girlfriend, even going to the movies. Jochen realizes that completely normal things can mean something different to humans who cannot perform some obligations, which people call "normal". He also discovered that cucumbers on the shelves could make him think about what he is missing: people then start thinking with symbols.

For the past two years Jochen has separated himself from the world. Working day, lonely evening watching television. In his mind, he would occasionally hear a whispering sound when a woman's love, at the same time, would come up with a question: why do we become helpless?

Urologist Potempa exposed thousands of patients to his clinic, who did not look like hunters, as well as conquerors, but as conquered and victims, victims of suspicion; doubt; skeptic.

The scientist asserts that, in general, a modern man is not prepared for a situation of defeat. According to Potempa's assessment with colleagues, the world currently has about 150 million men and the number of them will become more and more crowded. The pressure of civilization will not decline, and society is getting older.

According to Potempa, by 2025, the world will have at least 320 million men with problems with happy instruments. Most of this army will not knock on the doctor's door. Only 10% have the courage to do that and the psychologist's knock-down rate is even lower.

There are two schools of healing impotence syndrome. The first school is based on the exact analysis of the phenomenon - the job requires many years and for most patients it means the behavior of interfering too deeply in private life. The second school is to use brand-name drugs - measures that can be immediately effective, but not suitable for all subjects.

"They want to get out of the 'tiger hole' as quickly as possible, that's understandable," Potempa commented.

"I have been given a homeopathic medicine by a doctor, although it requires a long period of treatment, but the effect is sustainable. According to the explanation, the drug works on the psychological state," Jochen M. told. While Jochen wants to quickly and act directly on the body. The compound is called Sildenafil, better known as Viagra, which acts as an erection. "Thanks to Viagra, I was born a second time," Jochen said excitedly.

Three years of victim use the drug on doctor's prescription. Since then, his problem has been resolved. The effect of the "miracle" found immediately after 20 minutes of ingestion and maintained the next 240 minutes. For the first time while talking Jochen was confident and somewhat proud.

As one of the army of about 8 million men in Germany and about 150 million worldwide, Jochen has a girlfriend. They often meet, but the girl doesn't know anything about the boy's mysterious story. Jochen still secretly uses "elixir". "If our love is strong, one day I will reveal the truth," he said.