We need to understand the

We need to understand correctly about "pedophile" and "pedophile" to have a different view of these people, and to protect your own children.

Child sexual abuse is always one of the most despised and scary criminals that nothing can excuse and tolerate. The act of destroying a child, smashing a child's young soul will never be accepted by society.

Destroying the immature soul of children with sick pleasures is evil.

However, you still need to understand correctly about pedophiles and pedophiles, because those who have not committed crimes, they really need help. And helping them is also protecting themselves.

What is pedophilia?

An "avid" person is someone who has interests and sexual desire for pre-puberty or puberty children. In foreign countries, people put children in the form of a pathology, with the scientific name is pedophilia.

In Vietnam, we often use the word "pedophile" to refer to both "children" and " child molestation " offenders. But according to many experts, it is necessary to distinguish between these two concepts, because not all "pedophiles" have behaviors that abuse children.

An "avid" person is someone who has interests and sexual desire for pre-puberty or puberty children.

That is, the crime of sexually abusing children is childishness, but what brings these people to jail is child sexual abuse. Without such behaviors, those people would still be a normal citizen, no matter what thoughts they think. It's like men can . think uncomfortably about women, but if he doesn't have any acts of coercion, harassment or doing something that violates the law, he's still free.

Going back to pedophilia, according to James Cantor - an international expert who studies this area - this is like a trend instead of pathology, like the phrase "sexual orientation" for homosexuality. love.

But it is impossible to call pedophiles a sexual orientation, because many countries have introduced laws and policies that prohibit discrimination against homosexuals. Children cannot be on this list.

The children will never be accepted by society.Illustration.(Source: Human library).

Instead, experts offer another phrase "age orientation" - age orientation. And if the call of the baby is a trend, do you understand the fate of the children . how tragic? While homosexuality is gradually gaining recognition, fighting for equal rights, children will never be accepted by society.

Moreover, according to Dr. Cantor , if we consider pedophilia as a pathology, there is no way to "cure" them . Studies that have tried to turn a pedophile into a normal person have yielded no different results than tests of bringing homosexuals into heterosexuals.

Pedophiles need help! And helping them is also to protect us!

In studies, there are a number of links between brain structure and pedophile tendencies . That is, these people are born innate children, and they have no choice.

The only solution for pedophiles is to help them develop the skills needed to lead a healthy , non-sinful life. Some cases are too serious to even "chemical castration" - use drugs that reduce sexual desire, even "turn off" the instinct of the object permanently.

Chemical castration is a method used in very serious, irresistible cases.

But why help them? This question is definitely thought by many extremists. Why not simply isolate these people, push them out of society?

The answer is that this will be counterproductive! Dr. Cantor said, according to many statistics, the children are most likely to commit crimes when they feel that this society has no place for them, and they have nothing to lose. They commit crimes at times when they feel most depressed. And it is the alienation of society that will make this sense of collapse rise. In the end, they will either end their lives, or they will defy all but commit crimes.

Moreover, the isolation will make the child never dare to acknowledge himself. They did not want to seek help from psychologists, to live quietly in society like slow-bombs just waiting to break out.

Parents also need to change to protect their children

In Western developed countries, children are well educated about sex and related issues. Children learn how to protect themselves, prevent anyone from touching, and tell their parents when someone has unusual behavior.

Children need to be educated carefully.

Meanwhile in Vietnam, this issue has not been specifically focused. We consider touching to be normal. Many Vietnamese parents act on touching young children 's genitals, thereby forming a baby thinking that it is a loving act. And they are creating conditions for the children to have the opportunity to satisfy their desires.

Therefore, we need to change. Need to teach children how to protect themselves, understand that the body is a private thing, something no one is allowed to touch without their permission.

There are many ways to do this. In particular, the most commonly applied rule is the Underwear Rules - PANTS Rules, launched by NSPCC - the UK child protection organization. Apply now, for future children.