What is the dying person most regretful?

The new book of a former nurse who takes care of those who are near death, reveals what they regret most when they are about to leave their lives.

Bronnie Ware, a nurse in England who used to take care of and placate those who are about to "be near the land, away from heaven" , said she was surprised to find that many dying people have the same regrets as together.

"My patients are people who have gone home waiting to die and generally have to go through some special moments," Ware said . People have grown up a lot when faced with "death sentences." their own and some changes are a common phenomenon, each of them experiences different emotions: denial, fear, anger, regret, denial and finally acceptance ".

In the book entitled: "The Top Five Regrets Of The Dying: A Life Transformed By The Dearly Departing" , Ms. Ware summed up 5 of the most common regrets in people dying, especially those old, as follows:

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1. Regret did not have the courage to live true to oneself, instead of living according to the wishes of others

This is the top regret of most people who are about to retire. Ms. Ware said that when people realize their life is nearing the end and reliving things clearly, they easily see too many dreams that have not been fulfilled."Most people haven't done even half of their dreams and died when they realized that it was because they had or had no choice," Ms. Ware said.

2. Regret has worked so hard

"I wish I didn't work so hard" was the catch phrase of the dying men. They have missed enjoying their children 's youth and relationships with their partners. Women may also regret this, but often only from previous generations, because many sisters are not the breadwinner.

3. The regret has not revealed true feelings

Many people have to suppress real feelings to keep peace with others. That means, they sometimes have to "wear masks" undesirable. Therefore, when they are about to "be near the land, far away from the sky" , there is nothing to lose, they feel bitter and indignant with their own repressive feelings.

4. Regret has not kept in touch with friends

Often, many people will not really realize the meaning and importance of their friends until the last days of their lives. When dying, many people feel remorseful for losing their golden friendship for years. They deeply regret that they did not invest the time and worth sharing for their friends.

5. The regret has not allowed me to be happier

This is an amazingly popular regret among people who are about to die. Until death, many people realized that happiness deserves to be exchanged with many things. " They lived in old habits and habits. Satisfaction with their" familiarity "covered their emotions as well as their physical life. The fear of change caused them to pretend to people. Other and pretending to themselves that they are happy, happy, even in the deepest desire to laugh freely and do stupid things according to their will again , " Ms. Ware.