Check the love factors that help you

Researchers have shown what factors really affect your love.

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Love is a multifaceted concept, depending on the views and understandings of each person. It is a combination of instincts and intellect of a higher creature, when emotions surpass the pleasure.

People come together for many reasons, because of financial factors, love of lightning or arranged reasons . So what are the factors that really affect love?

Factors affecting love

Through a number of surveys, experts have come up with some of the most common factors that make people "slam" in front of their opponents:

1. Similarities in personality, attitude, personalities.
2. Geographical proximity.
3. Strange personality and beautiful appearance.
4. Satisfy your essential needs and wealth.
5. Excitement, physical and mental desire.
6. Social influence, approval, support of friends and relatives around.
7. Special points in voice, eyes, gestures .
8. Opportunity to be alone with 'people'.
9. Romantic.
10. Undefined reason.

However, researcher Eric Barker said that only a few of these standards really decided on the ability to 'come together by two people'. That is:

Close

Eric Barker said that one of the most important factors in emotional building is distance. It is the continuous, repetitive contact that will make one realize the common point of interest, appearance, or personality .

However, distance does not have the effect of amplifying the feeling of love, but the key is the main emotion - including anger and hate.

If the main emotion is attraction, constant contact will increase attraction. Daily contact with an unpleasant person only makes you hate them.

Experts conducted a survey showed that lightning love accounted for only 11% and mainly occurred in men. However, there are many cases of marriage. This shows that the first impression is extremely important. The harmonious combination of "distance" and speed will help you quickly reach the destination.

If you want to find love, choose a place that is familiar and frequented.Repeated exposure can give you unexpected opportunities.

Character

This is not an external personality (kind, smart, funny .) but an inner personality. According to Eric Barker, people with a strong sense of self and confidence are often 'dumped' in front of others.

There is a study of the correlation between self-awareness and intimacy in their relationship. Accordingly, people with low self-confidence and self-defense often have a lot of experience.

People who are often insecure and self-conscious are often less prone to love, and have less intimate relationships and more conflicts. So the secret is, be confident and be self-aware of your own personality.

Similarities

People often tend to choose lovers based on similar characteristics of personality. Besides, when couples get similarities in personality, they will be more comfortable and more harmonious when they are together, making the relationship full.

According to Barker, couples have similarities in both attitudes, personalities and behaviors, which tend to be much longer.

So when you want to stick with someone, show them the similarities between the two and should also look for similarities to ensure a stable relationship.

Excitement

Any situation that causes excitement also increases the likelihood of falling into 'love nets'. According to the survey, one-fifth of respondents said their relationship originated in a life event or conflict. Even, emotional sensitivity increased after the sad event like parents, relatives died .

Barker said that people cannot determine the exact cause of their emotions. This is a kind of disorder - any emotionally provoking situation has the ability to fool the brain, making us think we are 'in love'.

Do not misunderstand these are negative emotions, because even a film with a fast tempo, as strong as an action movie also causes this disorder.

A study was conducted with two groups watching action movies and less provocative films showing action movies that make couples close while the other group has little progress.

However, in fact, this disorder only plays the role of "amplifying" emotions. If you are attracted to a person, the stimulus makes that person more attractive. The lesson here is that when both of you have feelings, take her . go see the action movie.

Appearence

A lot of guys feel 'dead' by a girl just because her appearance is 'too standard'. Also because of this concept, most of the weaker sex always try to renew themselves so as to attract and attract more.

Some studies have demonstrated that men pay more attention to beauty looks than women. However, according to Barker, this is not necessarily true because the women also love the masculine beauty of men.

An experiment was launched with an audience of women. Experts ask what is most attractive about men and reveal, this answer will be checked with a lie detector. The answer is not unexpected - it is physically and physically attractive.

When women are forced to tell the truth, they admit that they are attracted and excited by the beauty of their appearance. However, under normal conditions (without lying detectors), they often deny that.

Barker said that the reason is due to the current social norms that make it recognized that 'appearance appeal' in women becomes . indecent. And experience for boys, invest seriously in your appearance.