Reduce 'shock' for a second child

Although I like having a baby, many children are still shocked when the number 1 position in the house belongs to the new member. Being a very good child, easy to eat and sleep, your child suddenly becomes uneasy, stubborn, disruptive and refuses to listen.

The mother needs to be sentimental about her family for her children (Photo: juliestuff) There are children who appear to be unusual like shouting in quiet space, deliberately "peeing" or messing around. All these unconscious things only show a single desire to get everyone's attention, forcing people to pay special attention to themselves.

From the age of 3, children have the ability to comment and memory quite well before the concerns of parents. During the time when the baby is not born, the child always finds himself the center of the whole family, gets all cuddles, strokes, has the same habits as "touch", "suck ti" . When I have you , children no longer have that privilege, easily feel that they are marginalized. Many children become abnormal, even bizarre behaviors such as biting other people, being sloppy, or competing with friends, getting sleepy or startled awake and crying loudly: "Need mom, don't need to baby " .

To prevent psychological shock for children, right from pregnancy or preparing for the second baby pregnancy, parents should talk to children about the image of its future baby. It is necessary to suggest family affection, comfort, and care for all family members. Reading stories or telling stories to children are all appropriate measures.

Practice for children to sleep on their own bed, or if conditions permit, to train them to sleep in their own rooms is the best. When children are not used to, sometimes let them sleep with their father or grandparents to gradually get used to being away from their mothers.

The mother's sensitivity in dealing with children is very important . The mother needs to know for each child a certain amount of care. No matter how busy you are, don't forget the gestures of caring, cuddling, caressing, and comforting a big child. Treating children like that is also teaching the first lesson about compassion and fairness.