The classic lesson from the story of the Jewish old man's arrest

The way of dealing with the situation of the Jewish people is still something that we have to learn, and through this story, people also know that they are capable of grasping the psychology of criminals.

The story content is as follows:

There are 3 friends to Jerusalem, along the way they feel due to carrying too much money, so the speed is slow and afraid of bandits, so they all agree to bury all the money of all 3 places in one place, wait for the car to be obtained come back later.

However, the next morning, they found that the money was "not flying", and surely the culprit could only be one of the three, because only they knew where to bury the money.

For a long time, of course no one would accept to steal money, all bring "the case" to Solomon, the smartest man in Jerusalem for help.

The ability to capture Jewish psychology is very good.

Solomon immediately after hearing the story, replied:

"I am also having a difficult problem, bothering to listen to my story first, give me some help and then I will solve your problem."

And soon after, he told a story to three guests:

"A girl was promised to marry a boy and was engaged. But soon after, she fell in love with another person. So, she suggested canceling the marriage with her fiancée, and willingly compensate him. a sum of money.

But because of the happiness of the person he loved, the boy agreed to cancel the marriage without compensation.

Soon after, the girl was cheated and taken hostage by an old man to ask for ransom. Wanting to escape, the girl told the old man:

"The fiancé didn't need compensation and agreed to cancel the marriage, so please do the same to me." So the old man agreed to let her go without taking any money.

After telling the story, Solomon asked, "According to you, girls, boys and old men, whose behavior is the most praiseworthy?".

The first person said: "The fiancée is the most praiseworthy, because he cherishes love for girls without compensation."

The second person said: "It must be a girl, because the girl is ready for love despite all the problems, do not hesitate to pay compensation to the fiance".

And the third person thought for a long time and replied: "The story is absurd, why did the old man kidnap the girl to ask for money and then dropped it so absurdly?".

As soon as the third person finished, Solomon pointed straight at his face saying, "You are the thief!" , and shouted at him to arrest him.

When everyone asked the reason, Solomon replied:

"It is a psychological blow, in the story I just told, the first two people only care about the situation, the character who overlooks the money, and the other only thinks about why the old man had to release the girl. not taking money, proving he has a perverted soul ".

After hearing all of them bow their heads in admiration to the old man, the thief then had to bow to plead guilty.

Sometimes very small actions and attitudes speak human nature.

Lessons from the story:

Most of us often judge people based on the immediate facts, but the old Jewish man taught us that, sometimes very small actions, attitudes can speak of human nature.

People are very difficult to guess, just like the burglary as well, where did the evidence come from that era to accuse the other man? But Solomon in the story "judges" based on each person's mind, to find the most suspicious person.

Therefore, even if not at the scene, or the scene is disturbed, just tell a story, the old Jewish man knew 3 people are really nature, and who is likely to be a high thief Best.

US FBI agents also often use the same method of the old man to find suspects when dealing with difficult cases.

When it comes to difficult things, the important thing is to calm down and ponder, find out the nature of things.

Those are stimulus measures, criminal psychological questions to know who has the nature of murder or think differently . from which they will estimate the percentage of who is the highest crime, then From there further investigation, find evidence of incriminating.

The story has taught us that, when it comes to difficult things, the important thing is to calm down and ponder, find out the nature of things instead of going into the path to search, as in the other story is the version substance, psychology of the thief.