Why do women talk a lot?

The book Why men can't listen and women can't see the maps of Allan Pease and Barbara Pease have raised and explained the paradoxes between the two men and women in terms of psychology. Accordingly, speaking a lot is an obvious characteristic of women (!).

Or say . women

When beautiful women huddle together, they talk about everything that happens in life, from children, husband and wife, work . Watch out, when the couple is watching TV, most is watching movies, when my husband always tells his wife to stop talking so that I can concentrate more. Men can only do one of two things, either talk, or watch television. And of course, men cannot understand why women do many things at the same time. Meanwhile, women say that talking is the best way to build relationships. They thought it was boring when two people sat and watched television like two potatoes.

Likewise, in the family, she talks more to girls than talking to her son. The reason is simply because girls are willing to answer their mother's story. While the son only answered in a short and unfriendly way to develop the story further.

Why do women need to talk a lot?

The brain of men is divided into many separate compartments to hold many different types of information. After a day's work, the man came home and put everything in his own brain compartments. Women are not like that. Every time there is a problem, it keeps going on in their heads. The only way for women to get out of their problems is to talk, to push them out of their minds.

So don't be puzzled if you see a girl talking all day. When stressed, women say more. She could talk for hours, elaborate on the problem she was meeting, met, able to meet . and of course, only to talk, not to ask for advice. Notice, when women say, she says rambling from one thing to another, there is no need for a specific conclusion. For women, sharing problems with friends is a way of expressing their faith in that person.

The more under pressure, the less men speak.

Men, on the other hand, when under stress, the brain of men must manipulate the function of logical thinking. For men, listening to women is a torture. Men think they have a responsibility to help women solve the problem she is talking about. As a result, the strong faction interrupted their sister with questions like: "What is the problem here? ". Questions like that just make women lose interest. So, guys, remember, the best way to comfort a sad woman is to show her that you are wholeheartedly responding to her story.

Do you remember Rodin's "Thinker" statue as a thoughtful man. He sits on a rock and thinks alone, without anyone else, including his best friend. In fact, the boyfriend that he is closest to probably also knows what he should let him think quietly. If any girl approaches him to comfort him, she will be disappointed. Women say their problems to everyone, while men hide their problems for themselves. The more under pressure, the less men speak. He is busy using his right brain to find a way to solve the problem, so there is no time for the left brain to perform listening or speaking. That silence makes women afraid. She often told her husband (boyfriend, brother, son .): " Come on, say it, you / I will be more comfortable" . But the result is useless. Talking to relieve stress is only true for women. Absolutely not applicable for men.