You can absolutely be 'bullied' at work, and this is the reason

The problem is not that you are weak, but the weak are bullies.

The phrase "bullying" seems to only appear in school. But no, even when working, you can still be bullied.

"Bullying" here is defined as the act of intimidating or controlling others to achieve their goals. Bullies are always aiming for "prey" of lower or equal status, and sometimes threatening their superiors by demanding to quit their jobs while "burning fire".

Even when working, you can still be bullied.

Those bad guys can be anyone, from big bosses to colleagues, and they turn your pink life into a series of worrying and panic days that don't tell anyone.

When people who hold power are weak and they are everywhere

We often mistaken bullies often do not have self-esteem, but actually they have a high self-esteem to the point of being arrogant. That action is a way for them to deal with shame about themselves.

They attacked others to hide the uncertainty from deep inside and make me always in a safe cover. They do not recognize their own feelings.

They have tremendous ego.

Take an example like this, A has a boyfriend who is rich but behaves very badly, always cursing and beating A. B is A's colleague and is in love with someone who is not very rich. So A tried to "erode" about B's lover, about how he was dressed modestly or never gave a good gift to B.

That action of A is like a self-petting, that my relationship is fine. In the long run, A's shameful feelings about his hot boyfriend will gradually fade and become ambiguous, causing A to live in a vicious circle of violence - violence against others - feeling good and continuing the relationship - being abused.

Attack others to stimulate the experience of power.

Striking others not only erases the shame that bullies are feeling, but also stimulates the experience of power. Although bullies lower others to raise themselves, they often have no clear sense of how bad they feel about themselves.

Over time, they will become people obsessed with themselves and often attack others to protect their own self-esteem.

What solution is this?

Every effort to reach a bully will not work if we still believe that they have some remorse.

The best way to deal is "alliance" with other colleagues.

If alone confronted with this problem, the victim may be isolated, and worse, lead to depression.The best way to deal is "alliance" with other colleagues.

We can discuss it together, causing the bully behavior of bullies to be brought to light. At that time, they lost all "power" to threaten others and faced the risk of being isolated themselves.

It is a temporary solution, in the long run, bullies can only stop when they know how to face their worries and learn how to solve their problems positively instead of becoming agitated.