Tips for giving birth at will: less effective

The types of materials that help the birth of boys and girls at will are present quite a lot in the market and are applied by many people. However, experts say that applying a special diet or changing the vaginal environment . according to the book is less effective.

Although she does not have a baby yet, she and her husband still decide to apply special measures to "be sure of a boy, how comfortable it is for the latter."

Nature has calculated to balance the gender between boys and girls. She bought a book of Childbirth at the discretion of Linh Son, published by Thanh Nien Publishing House in 2000 and tried to follow the instructions in the book. This type of document has been banned from circulation since September 2003 but is still sold in many private bookstores and pavement books, old books.

At bookstores in Nguyen Xi Street (Hanoi), just ask for a book to give birth to your child as you wish. The owner of a bookstore here said, although not in the best-selling form, not causing fever, but this book has regular buyers. The most frequently asked publications are Childbirth at will and Art of giving birth to girls. These books are mostly published from before the ban regulation and still exist.

Newspapers and magazines have also scattered articles to guide the selection of sex for the fetus. This 6-2 year Hanoi Cable TV magazine devoted a whole page to this issue, asserting that "the research results do not bring solid evidence but the desire to give birth is to be fulfilled." all possible ".

The article also posted 2 menus for those who want a prince or princess. Even the Weekend Health Magazine sometimes has articles that outline measures to increase the likelihood of giving birth to children according to their wishes such as sexual posture, sexual intercourse, diet .

On websites, this type of information is more and more popular. The Reproductive Health page of http://www.cimsi.org.vn/ (a website of the Central Institute of Medical Information - Ministry of Health) has a section entitled "Childbirth at will", posting details the rationale for implementation solutions. Lessons in this area are also available on many other websites such as http://www.webtretho.com/, http:///www.treem.net / .

Suffering hardship to choose gender for children

"First of all, to change the diet for a few months, not necessarily to eat salty, but to add a lot of sodium, potassium through meat, bananas, potatoes . Things rich in calcium like milk are eaten print less because it is a girl's birth menu "- Ms. Hoa said. This diet, according to the documents, will create an alkaline environment in the vagina, very convenient for the operation of Y sperm (and acid environment will benefit X sperm). Many dishes in the "standard menu" do not match tastes like coffee, beans . but she still has to try, the favorite dish is milk, she must press her belly, all for her.

Ms. Hoa said, eating and drinking is just the beginning. The next problem is the correct date of conception. According to the book as well as many other materials that she has read, Y sperm is stronger, swims faster but life is not as long as X. So if you want to have a son, you need to have sex right after ovulation. ; If you want to have a girl, you have to have sex for a few days before the egg dies. Only sperm X can afford to continue the race. The problem is to be on the right ovulation day.

"The egg soup is very hard" - Ms. Giang, a mother who is looking forward to having more son comments. Every month, on the 12th day of her menstrual cycle, she went to a private facility to look at eggs: "People put a transducer with a vaginal camera to check the size of the follicles, based on it. In theory, eggs fall out in the middle of the cycle, but in fact, this may happen on the surrounding days, so be sure to check the whole week for sure. "

Mrs. Giang has been watching like this for 4 to 5 months but has not yet "completed the project" because of continuous problems: When the husband is away on a sensitive day, when he is busy, he cannot continue to look at eggs. If you lose it, you don't know it at all, sometimes the "soldier" is too early, so the sperms, including X or Y, can't wait until the eggs fall.

Normally, expectant mothers cultivate eggs in many ways: screening, measuring temperature (women 's temperature increases during ovulation) and using test strips (similar to the pregnancy test, determining ovulation through hormone levels in urine).

In addition, in order to increase her chances of success, Ms. Hoa also went to a private clinic in Hoan Kiem District, famous for her baby birth counseling service, in the presence of a female doctor who had been the dean of a large maternity hospital in Hanoi.

Not only instructing how to eat, calculate the relationship date, the doctor here also told customers when it was decided to come to "renovate" the vaginal environment. The doctor will use an alkaline or acidic solution (depending on the need for a boy or a girl) to clean the vagina and vagina for customers to help the selected sperms "get better".

The effect is negligible

13 fathers like boys only 1 person likes girls

Through a survey of the concept of having a son and a daughter on nearly 2,900 men, up to 46% said that their desire is to have at least one warm boy;while the number only likes girls is 3.5%.Nearly one third of the participants said that every child is precious, the rest (18%) want to have all children.

For women, in nearly 1,600 people surveyed, the likes of boys also overwhelmed the numbers of girls (19% versus 6%).However, the desire for "stickman" in women is not as strong as men.Nearly half of them do not consider their gender important, more than 1/4 like both "sticky" and "broken".

The survey showed that only one-third of men and half of women were satisfied with their gender in all cases (whether they were boys or girls).The rest all tend to favor a certain gender (just want to have a son or a daughter or if one has already had one then want the second to have the opposite sex for all sorts of things).This means they may find ways to choose a gender for their children if given the opportunity.

Such a feat but not everyone is satisfied. Ms. Thanh and her husband in Hai Ba Trung district set up a plan from the first child, but only 2 times in a row are still "ducks". And Thu in Thanh Xuan collective (Hanoi) was born 3 times to get acne for her daughter but the results were the opposite. Dr. Nguyen Viet Tien, Director of the Central Obstetrics Hospital, said that there are no statistics on the actual effectiveness of childbirth measures as intended, but according to him, they are not very effective .

"Eating something is almost impossible to change the alkaline or acidic properties of body fluids, including the genital fluid" - Mr. Tien said. According to him, in order for life activities not to be disturbed, everyone's body has a mechanism to maintain pH at a balanced level. For example, if we eat a certain substance, the organs will filter away to remove it, if not removed, it will cause excess substance and harm the body.

For example, a woman who wants to give birth to a boy should try to eat salty, the kidney will have to remove excess salt to maintain the physiological balance between substances. When trying to eat too much of that substance, the woman not only tormented her in vain but also caused an imbalance.

Regarding the method of using alkaline or acid solution to directly improve the vaginal environment, Dr. Nguyen Viet Tien said that completely bullshit, not only has no effect but also harm. The vaginal environment in each person has a specific pH and it is at a reasonable level.

The action in the above way can be disruptive, and if not hygienic, it will cause inflammation, leading to clogging of the oviduct and infertility. Obstetrics and gynecologists always recommend that women never induce an oral hygiene solution into the vagina.

Mr. Tien acknowledged that choosing the right time "to act" could increase the probability of giving birth at will, but not significantly, because of the birth of a son or a girl determined by many factors. On the other hand, many gentlemen only have X or Y sperm, so even if there is a relationship every day, they will only "give birth to one child" only.

Many people have taken measures due to manuals and also gave birth to a child of the expected gender. However, according to experts, it is not possible to confirm that it is the result of a high-sodium or calcium diet or of the "relationship" schedule. Even when doing nothing, every conception has a 50% probability of birth and 50% of the probability of a girl, which is the law of nature to maintain a gender balance.