Why is the first-born boy and the girl on the full moon difficult to raise?

From the past to the present, the people still have the phrase "One-on-one boys and girls on full-moon day. Raising and raising them, but this is hard", that is, the children born on this day will be difficult to raise and unusual temperament. Is this true? Is it possible for all girls to be born on the 1st day of the moon and the boy born on the first day of the lunar calendar?

Explanations of experts and culture will partly open to readers about this folk concept.

Only applicable for night births

Dr. Nguyen Anh Hong, lecturer of the Department of Development Culture, Academy of Journalism and Propaganda opens the story with a reference to his sister. She said, her younger sister, who was on the right of a full moon in 1974, was born."The grandparents still said," A first-time boy, a full-day girl. "After experimenting with my younger brother, it is true that his temperament is stubborn, strong and fierce. My sister and I . are male, " she said.

Having many years of doing research, teaching about culture, especially folklore, Mrs. Hong confirmed: For a long time, people still mistook the birth of a son on the first day (lunar calendar), children. Girls born on the full moon day (the 15th day of the lunar calendar) are "difficult to raise" , different temperament. However, absolutely not. "It only applies to birth at night, not very effective for birth in the daytime. It is the fact that people go on a contract to increase suspicion and thrilling for those born on these two days ", she stressed.

Explaining this, Ms. Hong said: "Oriental culture still has mysterious stories about vampires appearing with the moon's cycle. The first day is the beginning of a new cycle, day. The 15 brightest moons mark the next cycle as the moon fades in. So this story is attached to those born during those two nights to increase the mystery. "

The child born on the full moon day, the first day is considered to have 'fortune'.

Influenced by the attraction of the moon

Dr. Vu The Khanh, General Director of the Union of Applied Informatics Technology (UIA), explains the relationship between the birth of a son on the first night, a daughter born on the night of the full moon based on the attraction of the moon. with the tide.

Accordingly, "the attraction of the moon according to the lunar calendar, the sun according to the solar calendar. The tide changes according to the attraction of the moon. At the same time, it is the attraction of the moon that has caused the state of" tide learning "in the human body, making changes in the human body fluid. It is the cause of neurological stimuli to crisis, confusion and loss of balance, aggravation more neurological diseases . At the same time, those born on those two nights will have special biological changes than those born on other nights, " said Khanh.

According to Mr. Khanh, in the concept of folklore, the moon represents the sound of air, synonymous with girls, and the sun represents the positive (son). On the full moon, the brightest and most beautiful sound is also the biggest. The daughter born that night is converging that light, a part that is transformed into personality.

On the contrary, the day when the moon is the dimmest, the ocean will prosper. Boys born on that night will converge these great qigong characters into character."Associated with the tide going up and down on those two days, plus the statistics by folk experience, people really believe that," the first son, the full-day girl "has special and different temperament, Of course, either positive or negative, not completely biased towards either side, " Khanh said.

Dr. Nguyen Anh Hong: For a long time, people still mistakenly believe that the birth of a boy on the first day (lunar calendar), the daughter born on the full moon day (the 15th day of the lunar calendar) is "difficult to raise", the temperament is different.

Should not interfere with medicine

Although recognizing the concept of folklore also has a scientific basis (in terms of the relationship between moonlight and the tide), Mr. Doan Phu, the Center for Research of Human Potential notes, is only a factor. Initially affecting the personality of children born during those two nights."Basically, that personality is governed by the notions that have existed for hundreds of years," Mr. Phu said.

According to Mr. Phu, Vietnamese people have the custom of worshiping ancestors, going to pagodas on the first day, full moon day (squirrel days and days of hope)."Those days are still considered to be the day of the gods. The child born in that day is regarded as" fortune. "They are also afraid that if they do not welcome, take good care of it, they will violate the holy spirit, the child. they will leave their parents (difficult to raise), therefore, they welcome with a different attitude than the children born on other days, other nights, they are more spoiled and cherished. In the end, considering me the most, the "center of the universe" and everyone must submit to the hunt, that personality can be good, also in the direction of becoming a bad person , " Mr. Phu said.

In fact, there are many families who choose the date and time of birth for their children, avoiding "the first son and the daughter of the full moon" to be easy to take care of, not "contrary to the fruit" according to traditional conception. However, Dr. Vu The Khanh countered: "According to the number, each person is born with his own destiny, completely arranged by nature but cannot intervene by medicine according to the type of childbirth at the time of Because if so, everyone would choose a good time for their children, what to do and people who suffer from misery and poverty.

Medical intervention to avoid childbirth on the night of the first and the night is also easy to understand. But if only medically intervention is not enough, it is not necessary. The most important thing is how parents care about their children, should not indulge their children too much so that they consider themselves the most, easily damaged. The children born on those two special nights, if there are good qualities, the family needs to help the child to promote, on the contrary, to know how to sharpen and shape children ".

Sharing the same view, Dr. Nguyen Anh Hong also said that "virtue wins the number ". "Although being born on a day, an hour but being educated, caring for the family will help the child to develop both physically and mentally. Can't just blame it one, full moon to abolish the educational role of the family " , she said.