Why did the child become so violent?

A six- and seven-month-old baby may show dissatisfaction. A two-year-old boy occasionally raged, ready to smash everything, throw toys or scream loudly. Surely every parent feels embarrassed, wants to know why he is like that and how he should behave with it.

Every child seems to be aggressive at times. However, you should know, when a child is less than five years old, you should not call him aggressive. He is not old enough, he is very active and often reacts to feelings of frustration with anger.

In the experimental series about their lives, children try to do a lot of things, including rough acts. But if these behaviors become frequent, repeated, parents need to be more concerned. It will be worrisome if children's behaviors are destructive, dangerous to themselves or to those around them. Moreover, you should also be aware if your baby's actions have a bad purpose but for no reason such as: Destroying furniture, torturing animals, hitting me .

In fact, there are many children who tend to behave more harshly than others. That may stem from the following causes:

- Lack of warm family atmosphere : Every child needs to be close to his parents, especially his mother. If this relationship is too loose, the child gradually feels unloved and protected. To escape the feeling of sadness, it becomes frustrating to the world around.

- How to deal with adult conflicts improperly : We all know children learn by imitating. Disgusting, angry, disrespectful, using violence . are behaviors that children learn from parents or adults. A three-year-old child who always sees them fighting, witnessing this person torturing, using violence against others, will receive free lessons about violence.

- Watching inappropriate TV shows : On television, violent scenes sometimes happen more than they actually are. And every scene is difficult to accept for children and cause psychological trauma for them. Watching so many things like that will turn a child into a nonchalant, hardened person with what could have touched him. Researchers say that children who see a lot of violence will not be willing to help others.

- There are more babies : When parents are busy with the baby, the child often gets scolded. He suddenly had to make an adult suddenly. 'I go to another place to play. It's so big, but I don't know how to wear clothes myself '. That attitude unintentionally makes children feel abandoned and treated unfairly.

- Start kindergarten : Both parents and teachers want children to be courageous and independent, to take care of themselves. While all of that is too hard for a child to make it stumble.

- Crisis in the family : When parents do not have mutual understanding and understanding, or worst, they get divorced, the concern for them is poor. The child, due to feelings of abandonment, unprotected, may have rough reactions, often outside the family.