Miraculous effect of humor

Humor has the power of optimism. Humor makes it easy to handle awkward situations with a single sentence, helping them build relationships.

Humor helps to change a person's depressed mood, helps them find joy, confidence, psychological balance needed after experiencing life's frustrations.

English writer William Makepeace Thackeray once said: "Life is a mirror. If you smile at it, it will laugh with you. If you cry with it, it will cry with you." So, sometimes, the way to overcome trouble is to learn to smile.

Sometimes the way to overcome trouble is to learn to smile.(Artwork: Foxnews).

Humor helps defeat the trouble

A historical figure famous for humor is Abraham Lincoln, the US president. There is a story about his humor, in one lecture, Lincoln received a piece of paper below sent out, above the words "Stupid Guy".

The content of the paper was meant to be ironic, but he just smiled, held it up for everyone to see, and said: "I have received countless anonymous mail, every message has content but nothing. signed. Yet today, on the contrary, I received a letter with no content, only signed. " Everyone below laughed, applauded for the quick wit and humor of the president.

Humor is a "secret weapon"

Lincoln's humor always helped him conquer others. There is another story about his humor, once he walked from the suburbs to the city. Halfway through, he saw a car from behind approaching him. He waved, signaling the car to stop. After the car stopped, he went to ask the driver: "Sorry, can you help me bring this jacket to the city?". The driver asked, "Of course. But how do I return this shirt to you?". Lincoln said, "Oh, very simple, I was going to wrap myself in a shirt." Impressed with Lincoln's humor, the driver invited him to board the car, going to the city.

American writer Mark Twain, during his travels, dropped by a hotel. While the writer was doing the procedure, he saw mosquitoes buzzing on his head. However, instead of criticizing this place for poor hygiene, he joked: "I heard that mosquitoes are very smart at your places. As expected, I have just come here, it has secretly checked my room number. Perhaps tonight he'll sneak into the room and have a big party here ". Listening to the joke of Mark Twain, the receptionist was both funny and embarrassed, so he quickly went to handle the mosquitoes, so that the funny guest would not be bitten by the "intelligent mosquito" . The people around could not help laughing, shaking hands, and befriending Mark Twain. That night, he had many more friends.

How can we be funny?

Do not be too concerned about what others think, let yourself be comfortable and happy

Nothing in this world and no one in this world can be loved by everyone. So, instead of trying to please others and live up to their ideas, you should take the time to do the work you like, live the way you want. Thanks to that, you will feel happier. Only when you are happy , relaxed, your heart is open, your jokes are really positive.

Do not be weak

Humor does not mean to be ungainly and unrefined. Humor is always smart, brave, instead of people with weak hearts, easy to break, vulnerable.To have a sense of humor, you must first have knowledge and experience, so the more you need to give yourself the opportunity to thicken your life.

Dare to create joy for yourself

We people sometimes attach too much importance to personal images, place heavy emphasis on "dignity " and want to show perfect faces to others. If you want to improve your sense of humor, sometimes you need to "lower" yourself a little. Sometimes daring to laugh at yourself is also a good way to cultivate a sense of humor.

Playwright Bernard Shaw once said : "Humor is like a suspension system on a chariot, without it, a small stone on the road can make you humid ." The value of humor is that.

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